Curse

Absinth187 · Oct 23, 2007, 03:33 PM // 15:33

Women dig a guy with confidence. If you wear your heart on your sleeve too often (telling her that you like her too much), it will get abused. You have to make them fall for you, not the other way around. Like Azzer said, if you back off and pursue other girls, you'll start to notice girls chasing you. Just be sure to treat them with respect.

Also, like what others said, you are young and most likely will date several girls over the years. Once you find the right one and experience a solid relationship, you'll either look back and wonder why you cried over so-and-so, or you won't even remember the others at all.

Malice Black · Oct 23, 2007, 03:33 PM // 15:33

Get yourself a hobby.

Ice Breaker · Oct 23, 2007, 03:56 PM // 15:56

Guild Wars?

lol.

Hoyt · Oct 23, 2007, 03:56 PM // 15:56

Rule #1:
Communicate

Rule #2:
Be honest

Rule #3:
Don’t play games

Rule #4:
Honor the restraining order

PS:
Make her a mix CD (use it to communicate how you feel without being too sappy or needy)

pumpkin pie · Oct 23, 2007, 04:08 PM // 16:08

Sounds to me like this girl isn't that nice to begin with. Was she ashamed to be with you? why the secrecy? there must be a reason for that. She didn't even wait before jumping on another boy after breaking up with you.

Ask yourself why you like her that much. Is it worth all this heart ache? (i think not) If it isn't worth it you have to move on. Get out of there quickly!

elektra_lucia · Oct 23, 2007, 04:37 PM // 16:37

Quote:

Originally Posted by magi of the light

so umm theres this girl i really like right. and she lives right nextdoor. and well heres the story. so we became friends and stuff...and i started to like her alot. and i told her nd she said she didnt like me back. but then one day well lets just say i found out she liked me and we started makin out..great for me huh!!?!

it continued for a few days and then my dumb self told someone and word got back to her this was last thursday. so she practicly hated me... i felt soo bad and depressed i actuly cried and i apologized so many times. and we talked today and i promised her id never do something like that agian and she was like ok.

but now she says she wasnt thinking right when we did that. now shes talkng to this dude and i can tell she likes him. so now were still friend but not like we were. and i asked her just a few mins ago if i completly blew my chance from us ever getting back together and she was like " i dont think so"

so now heres my delima what should i do. i mean now i have to work my ass off proving im not an ass hole (wich im not!!) and waiting for her and this dude to go out and break up (wich could take a while but if the guys like i think he is hell screw her over kinda like i did to her...but i felt terrible doing it)

so yea what should i do?
forget about her( almost impossible and could take me a while)
wait it out and hopefulyl have another chance come around

I think it's wrong posting online, it makes you look like a weak person. Not saying this to be offensive, I'm just brutally honest. Girls do not like weak males. Also, certainly do not take advice from other females. They sometimes don't realise their own character. They will say they want a sweet character, when they're not attracted to these type of people a lot of the time. The thing about guys saying 'women like arseholes'. That's not true, they don't like raw arrogance, but they can go for 'bad boys' because they're more challenging.

Women are simple, and the problem is simple. That's all you have to look at it. I say women, she's probably a girl but it's no different.

Women know that they can open their legs at any time to any guy and they'll have the guy they want, because of this they like the guys that seem more challenging. They're different from the rest... You don't (I know you did, but I'm giving advice so I say 'you' meaning anyone) ask if you've blown it. Or is it too late. Women don't generally go for looks as much as males do, and I'm sure some will argue but again, do NOT listen to a girls view on this unless they agree with me. It doesn't matter if it's a married woman, you can still get her if you want. I know that you're probably like fourteen or something but I'm saying in general. The situation has to be treated as general because no matter how special you think you are, you aren't.

Girls test you all the time, where you look (lips, eyes, etc), how you stand, how you sit. You lay back, you can look relaxed but not like you're interested. So they'll want you to be interested. You put your hands on them (not too much) you look comfortable. It's attractive for a woman to think a guy is comfortable. You stand closer to the road when walking with them, they feel more protected than if you go the other side. You don't make it obvious you're jealous of a guy it won't bug them that you are.

You make subtle hints sometimes, and it will show that you're a bit interested. Note, subtle. You can be as blunt as a brick if you think they're interested in you, but being blunt isn't always good. The girl may say, or may not say it's too late. It doesn't matter what she's saying. You make ANY girl interested enough and you get her, it doesn't matter what the new guy thinks. c ock block him =D.

Showing you're interested in other girls can help, but not to the point you choke her off. It's not about other people that is important, you have to show you are the important one.

Be wary of using peoples advice online, when a lot of them have internet girlfriends they haven't seen or heard speak. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against meeting someone for a relationship but I am against 'oh KEKE IM A LITTLE GIRL I WILL BE YOUR BF IF YOU GIVE ME ECTO' and I'm against anyone that takes advice from these people.

Woman (generally) do like confidence but that doesn't mean you shouldn't cry if your dog dies. It is exactly about playing games, the serious stuff comes later.

Girls around 16 and 40 are really horny. You make them want to screw you, then they'll be more interested. Kisses mean sod all to women by the way. Kisses mean more to a guy, but sex probably means more to a female. You can have one night stands with a female and not really give a shit about the girl but I notice this can mean a bit to a girl. Don't make her a CD, don't make her anything. She has gone off with someone else, you don't reward her. Call her in the middle of the night or something, and say something totally random. Then hang up. Just annoy her too, girls like that. Kicking a guys arse doesn't make you look like an arsehole, it makes you look pathetic, jealous and more. Making out he doesn't bother you is better...

A girl strokes a guys dick = they have him for a night.
A girl strokes a guys ego = they have him for life
A guy rejects a girl = they have attraction.
For most females, so long as you keep attraction up, you haven't blown your chance.

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Don't go down the route of thinking she wasn't nice to begin with. You failed (so far), don't blame anything on anyone other than yourself (not that you are doing so). I mean that in the nicest possible way.

I don't know if you have PVE'd and troll farmed before. This is what women are, ok? Fluffy trolls. You go up to them and they will hang around, sometimes for a while. Now if you reject them and clear off, they chase you.

P.S. Another reason you should not be fooled into blaming her (and you should only blame yourself), you told your friend or whoever that you had kissed her... Sometimes men brag about this and maybe you didn't but she might of thought you did.

WarKaster · Oct 23, 2007, 04:53 PM // 16:53

"If your having girl problems, I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one"

Listen to pumpkin. You sound young, you'll find some one else. Besides this broad sounds like she loves the drama and believe me the less of that you have in your life the better.

Believe me, date around, get to know other girls its probably the best thing you can do right now.

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 05:03 PM // 17:03

Quote:

Originally Posted by WarKaster

"If your having girl problems, I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one"

Listen to pumpkin. You sound young, you'll find some one else. Besides this broad sounds like she loves the drama and believe me the less of that you have in your life the better.

Believe me, date around, get to know other girls its probably the best thing you can do right now.

nice quote mate

i dont think im weak lol

X Cytherea X · Oct 23, 2007, 05:21 PM // 17:21

show up sprawled buck nekkid on her bed one evening

Tarja · Oct 23, 2007, 06:49 PM // 18:49

Read this line until your eyes start to bleed:

Never kiss and tell!

First off, pardon my bluntness, you're a moron. Intimate things for most women are private affairs, you don't go bragging to other people about it, as it makes you seem like you NEED to brag about it. Get my drift? Yes, no?

Women (in general) find guys more interesting after the guy has given her a little interest, and then just doesn't care. I mean that in the sense that he seems indifferent. It pique's their interest, and let's face it, most women fall for it. ( I say most, or generally, because there are always exceptions).

Now, I'm not going into great detail like elektra_lucia, mainly because I'm lazy, and you shouldn't have posted your relationship problems on a forum.
You want other people to give you their answers for your problem.

DON'T CHEAT ON THE LIFE TEST

.. that is all.

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 06:57 PM // 18:57

that was eehhh blunt....but then agian i see what you mean so yea i kinda have to agree with you im a moron in more ways than 1

elektra_lucia · Oct 23, 2007, 07:09 PM // 19:09

You are weak because you stated most people you have dated have screwed you over, a strong person would blame themselves. It is always good to blame yourself in such situations. I notice in a lot of your posts you always say how people should go to your thread and help... It seems weak as it's all you talk about? :/, help yourself

. Blunt is sometimes the only way people listen. If you are offended by this, do say. I'll edit it =D.

bebe · Oct 23, 2007, 07:32 PM // 19:32

What did you exactly tell? o_O

From what I read.. all I can suggest is just.. be her friend? and just be there for her whenever (if you really like this girl.. to the extreme, I guess.) Build your reputation(?) back up with her and maybe she'll turn around and start liking you back/again and you won't mess it up the second time..

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 07:47 PM // 19:47

well what ever i honestly dont care that you think im week...thatd your opinion and your entitled to it. so w/e. anyways i think i have an idea of what i should do now thanks for all the help peoples

elektra_lucia · Oct 23, 2007, 08:23 PM // 20:23

Well strong males wouldn't make such a thread - bug others to view thread - make same mistakes, etc. You may not care that I think you're weak, but you should start caring that you are weak. I'm not repeating myself to hurt you, or be an arsehole. You wanted help.

Going to pick up classes might help you also.

Divinitys Creature · Oct 23, 2007, 11:42 PM // 23:42

Quote:

Originally Posted by elektra_lucia

I think it's wrong posting online, it makes you look like a weak person. Not saying this to be offensive, I'm just brutally honest. Girls do not like weak males. Also, certainly do not take advice from other females. They sometimes don't realise their own character. They will say they want a sweet character, when they're not attracted to these type of people a lot of the time. The thing about guys saying 'women like arseholes'. That's not true, they don't like raw arrogance, but they can go for 'bad boys' because they're more challenging.

Women are simple, and the problem is simple. That's all you have to look at it. I say women, she's probably a girl but it's no different.

Women know that they can open their legs at any time to any guy and they'll have the guy they want, because of this they like the guys that seem more challenging. They're different from the rest... You don't (I know you did, but I'm giving advice so I say 'you' meaning anyone) ask if you've blown it. Or is it too late. Women don't generally go for looks as much as males do, and I'm sure some will argue but again, do NOT listen to a girls view on this unless they agree with me. It doesn't matter if it's a married woman, you can still get her if you want. I know that you're probably like fourteen or something but I'm saying in general. The situation has to be treated as general because no matter how special you think you are, you aren't.

Girls test you all the time, where you look (lips, eyes, etc), how you stand, how you sit. You lay back, you can look relaxed but not like you're interested. So they'll want you to be interested. You put your hands on them (not too much) you look comfortable. It's attractive for a woman to think a guy is comfortable. You stand closer to the road when walking with them, they feel more protected than if you go the other side. You don't make it obvious you're jealous of a guy it won't bug them that you are.

You make subtle hints sometimes, and it will show that you're a bit interested. Note, subtle. You can be as blunt as a brick if you think they're interested in you, but being blunt isn't always good. The girl may say, or may not say it's too late. It doesn't matter what she's saying. You make ANY girl interested enough and you get her, it doesn't matter what the new guy thinks. c ock block him =D.

Showing you're interested in other girls can help, but not to the point you choke her off. It's not about other people that is important, you have to show you are the important one.

Be wary of using peoples advice online, when a lot of them have internet girlfriends they haven't seen or heard speak. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against meeting someone for a relationship but I am against 'oh KEKE IM A LITTLE GIRL I WILL BE YOUR BF IF YOU GIVE ME ECTO' and I'm against anyone that takes advice from these people.

Woman (generally) do like confidence but that doesn't mean you shouldn't cry if your dog dies. It is exactly about playing games, the serious stuff comes later.

Girls around 16 and 40 are really horny. You make them want to screw you, then they'll be more interested. Kisses mean sod all to women by the way. Kisses mean more to a guy, but sex probably means more to a female. You can have one night stands with a female and not really give a shit about the girl but I notice this can mean a bit to a girl. Don't make her a CD, don't make her anything. She has gone off with someone else, you don't reward her. Call her in the middle of the night or something, and say something totally random. Then hang up. Just annoy her too, girls like that. Kicking a guys arse doesn't make you look like an arsehole, it makes you look pathetic, jealous and more. Making out he doesn't bother you is better...

A girl strokes a guys dick = they have him for a night.
A girl strokes a guys ego = they have him for life
A guy rejects a girl = they have attraction.
For most females, so long as you keep attraction up, you haven't blown your chance.

.

Don't go down the route of thinking she wasn't nice to begin with. You failed (so far), don't blame anything on anyone other than yourself (not that you are doing so). I mean that in the nicest possible way.

I don't know if you have PVE'd and troll farmed before. This is what women are, ok? Fluffy trolls. You go up to them and they will hang around, sometimes for a while. Now if you reject them and clear off, they chase you.

P.S. Another reason you should not be fooled into blaming her (and you should only blame yourself), you told your friend or whoever that you had kissed her... Sometimes men brag about this and maybe you didn't but she might of thought you did.

Wow.---------------

elektra_lucia · Oct 23, 2007, 11:57 PM // 23:57

What kind of wow? ^_^

Father of The Son of God · Oct 24, 2007, 12:38 AM // 00:38

So, which of these opinions came from the girls? I can't hardly tell.

In all fairness, I just ran across this thread by the time it reached page 3...maybe the original title was different.

elektra_lucia · Oct 24, 2007, 01:34 PM // 13:34

I can do a good female impression. Does that count?

IslandHermet · Oct 24, 2007, 02:03 PM // 14:03

How old are you both?? that is the question if your still in High school Dont even give it a moments notice as High school relationships are more of a Popularity Relationship or a sexual relationship. and if it is a Girl than your shit out of luck Girls are exactly that Girls, What you want is a Woman mature and expirienced and knows what she has going on in her life. High school relationships are mostly for Good old fun. same goes for college relationships mostly just for the sex. dont get me wrong their are people who have successful relationships in high school and college.